A common misconception some couples may have when it comes to eloping is the actual meaning of it. I’ve noticed that when some black couples hear the term ‘elopement’ they automatically think it is about running to the courthouse or a chapel in Las Vegas to get married. Well, it is so much more than that.
What is a black elopement?
I can’t say whether or not I coined the term ‘Black Elopement’ but I can definitely tell you what it is in my own words. A Black Elopement is an intimate, meaningful, and unique wedding day experience that ditches the traditional wedding structure and focuses solely on celebrating the black love between the couple and the promises being made. It is about choosing purpose over popular and creating a space where the couple can be vulnerable with each other on the day they cross over into marriage. A black elopement is living out a dream day full of fun and romantic experiences.
A Black Elopement is thinking beyond the courthouse or running off to Las Vegas. See, with an elopement, the possibilities are endless. The world is now your oyster. No need to worry about spending tens of thousands of dollars on flowers or going through the hassle and drama that comes with planning a huge wedding. Now the day is solely about the couple.
Here are some great questions to ask yourself when planning an elopement:
- Where do I want to elope?
- What romantic experiences or fun activities do I want to celebrate with my partner?
- Do I want to bring my closest loved ones to the destination we choose or only celebrate with my partner?
When it comes to eloping, destinations like St. Lucia, Jamaica, Miami, The Maldives, Mexico, Japan, Sint Maarten, Africa, and so much more are viable options to choose from. For activities, you could hire a private chef, go on a photography safari together, go horseback riding, experience a hot air balloon, and so much more.
The most beautiful part about eloping is that it is very intentional, intimate, and meaningful. That also goes for the guest list. I emphasize closest loved ones for a reason. Parents, grandparents, or day-one best friends are the only people that should come to mind if considering inviting anyone to your destination elopement. Not the distant cousin or aunt that you only speak to when attending a family get together. Otherwise, keeping things simple and inviting no one except the photographer would be the better option to keep things very intimate.
If you are considering eloping or never considered it but now you are after reading this, reach out to me. I would love to discuss more with you on what an elopement is and the possibilities for you. Most of all, I would love to capture it for you. You could check out more of my work here.
I am an African American destination elopement photographer based in South Florida and willing to travel anywhere love takes me.
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